Likes, comments, and direct messages allow people to interact with the other gender more easily, as social media has blurred the lines between personal and public contacts.
But is it simply lighthearted fun when a married man or woman or committed partners post provocative remarks under pictures or clips, or does it cross the line into insulting their relationship?
Is it fair?
From the standpoint of a partner, it can seem unfair and even embarrassing to observe their other half flirting in front of others. While everyone may use social media openly, partnerships are based on mutual respect, and dismissing the worries of one spouse who finds such flirty comments uncomfortable can bring bitterness to the relationship.
Why Do They Get Defensive?
Many people get defensive when faced since they do not consider their behavior as a betrayal, as for them it’s “just a comment” or “doesn’t mean anything.”
Defensiveness, then, can also be an indication of guilt. If something is benign, one should not hesitate to be honest and consider the emotions of the partner.
Should Boundaries Exist?
Absolutely!
Every couple has varied comfort degrees and
clearly defined limits on what is acceptable which help to avoid misunderstandings and pointless arguments.
Should one partner find flirting remarks unsettling, it is advisable to talk about it and find a medium ground honoring both people’s emotions.
Is this cheating?
Emotional micro-cheating is a true idea even if it might not be physical cheating. Online flirting can lead to an emotional distance between couples and open possibilities for more improper communications. Going online and scrolling through random reels and profiles should be avoided if something might cause your partner discomfort.
Remember if you wouldn’t do this in reality, doing it online isn’t right either.
Conclusion
Although leaving flirtatious remarks on social media seems innocuous, it can compromise the emotional stability and trust of a relationship. If challenged, it’s better to be honest and strike a compromise that suits both spouses than become defensive. Strong relationships flourish on mutual respect, online and in person.
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Frequently Asked Questions about Flirty remarks & comments on social media
How do I confront my partner if I'm not comfortable with him liking and commenting under random images of the opposite gender?
The best way is to communicate; there’s no other way round it. Communication is the key to mending anything.
I confronted my husband but he got defensive. How do I handle such a situation?
That can be abit frustrating, but the best thing is not to confront in anger. Aggressiveness will only shut him down and turn it all on you. Remain calm and collected and ask open-ended questions.
I have a habit of commenting flirty remarks under influencers images. I know it hurts my husband; how can I refrain from doing this?
Firstly, unfollow the influencers. Ask yourself, why do you do this? Is it just unthoughtful fun or do you seek validation? Put yourself in your husband’s place and imagine how it would make you feel.
Is leaving flirty comments considered to be cheating?
Though it’s not physically cheating on someone, it can be emotionally disconnecting between partners, causing distance and trust issues and self-value issues too.
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