Introduction
Problems Managing a spouse with an exaggerated ego can be draining both physically and mentally, funnily it can also somewhat hit your ego as well.
This blog shared exclusively on the Sphere Medium platform is a simple tool to assist you in handling a spouse with a inflated ego without compromising your self-worth.
Note down these tips or take a screenshot, whatever works for you and remember, the inflated ego of a person comes from their own shortcomings and insecurities and has absolutely nothing to do with you.
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Establish Definite Limits
A self-centred spouse could attempt to control discussions or choices. Whether it concerns respect, tone, or space, calmly but firmly establish limits.
Avoid Competing With Him
Steer clear of making every situation a power battle. You don’t have to outshine him to show your value, rather remain humble in your self-assurance. Let him do the bragging.
Select Your Battles Carefully
Not every remark or deed calls for a reaction. Let small egotistical moments go and save your energy for concerns that really count.
Confirm, but avoid feeding the ego
Avoid becoming a constant cheerleader for his efforts and successes. While genuine praises are quite helpful, don’t over-praise. Just a small sincere praise is enough, don’t be overly flattering.
Speak quietly
Steer clear of combative tones. Use “I” declarations to convey your emotions. For instance, “I feel ignored when my views go unheard.”
Concentrate on your development
Maintain your own hobbies. A husband with a large ego could accidentally eclipse you. Follow your interests to keep equilibrium.
Recommend Counselling
Should his conduct be damaging your marriage, recommend couples therapy. A specialist can assist you both in identifying better channels of communication.
Make Self-Care a Priority
This is so important! Managing an overblown ego can be exhausting. Hobbies, friends, or quiet times can help you recharge.
Doing your own thing will give you both space and maybe time for the spouse to reflect.
Conclusion
Knowing when to back off Should his ego cross into emotional abuse or ongoing contempt, do not overlook it. Sometimes distance or separation is required; therefore, safeguard your well being! Nothing comes before that.
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Frequently Asked Questions about
Is gaslighting the same as having an ego?
They are two different things. Having an ego is someone who feels superior and prides himself i.e self importance, whereas gaslighting is manipulating behaviour.
How do I confirm my partner has a huge ego?
Good question! Well, to name a few:
• will never say sorry
• won’t ever admit they’re wrong
• ignores your feelings
• self importance
• self centered
• wanting constant praise
And the list goes on.
Can we change our spouses? As in, deflate their ego?
It can happen but only if they realise, and want to grow. Communication and gently planting the seed can help. It’s a hard mission but as they say, nothing is impossible.
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